Analyticals are the most bothersome for me of all the
personality types or social styles. When
coaching business owners, one of the things you assess is progress. You do this by evaluating goals and backing
up activities to see what it takes to achieve them, right? The analyticals are in love with the
process. While the driver is purely concerned
with results, the analytical is concerned with the process of getting the
results. They do like evaluating but not
for the sake of getting the results they need but evaluating for the sake of
evaluating. They are usually in love
with the steps involved and this is true even in relationships which we know is
not logical. The analytical believes he
or she is being logical but this is not true.
They are governed by their feelings just like the rest of us but they
are much better at justifying their actions.
The right/wrong/, good/bad paradigm is most difficult for this
group. The favorite word of the
analytical person is ‘accuracy’ and the truth is it is more like their
lifeblood. As a coach, creating a new
result for an analytical is most difficult mostly because perfection is his or
her goal and they can really get bogged down in the steps involved in
improving.
I recently lost 72 lbs by using a process known as Dr.
Simeon’s Protocol and I underwent it with my wife. This process required us to eat as little as
500 calories per day even though the food list had variety. My wife got in to this thing with me and it
was a resounding success. The protocol
had three phases and during the second phase we were to gradually increase our
caloric intake to the normal 1800-2200 calories per day in 150 calorie
increments. In phase one, we had bought
one of the fancy scales that allowed you to find out the exact fats,
carbohydrates, and proteins depending on the food you ate. You see, there was a four digit code for most
foods and you weighed it on this fancy scale and you found out all you wanted
to know. I had been pretty neurotic
during phase one eating exactly 500 calories and drinking just the right amount
of water and abstaining from putting anything in my mouth with 15 minutes of
taking the drops. My wife was a gem as
she painstakingly measured all the food and I dutifully ate just the right
amount. But then came phase 2.
We lost unheard-of amounts of weight during phase 1 and we
were stoked. All the measuring of food
paid off and being reminded that it was time to eat ceased to be
bothersome. It was not bothersome
because I was hungry and in fact I wasn’t hungry at all. What was bothersome was being told what to
do. I must say that I hated it. But I got the results and in phase 2, I did
not have to worry about all that food restriction. Toward completion of phase 2, when we were at
more than 1500 calories per day, my wife asked me how many calories had I taken
in this particular day. I had no idea so
I said so, “I don’t know, just ate some food.”
She had no patience for that response and reminded me that it was the
day for 1500 calories. You see, I, who
am an expressive, reasoned that since I was not on the 500 calorie restriction,
there was no need to count my calories, so it did not matter. My wife begged to differ with me because she
reasoned that you count the calories because you are SUPPOSED to count
them. This was a far cry from what I thought
because I was not in love with the process, I simply did it when it was
discovered.
When coaching an analytical person, be more personable than
usual. Keep in mind a chameleon is a good
thing to be and so is being stern. You will
be required to keep things moving because an analytical will have you jumping
out of the window by telling you how bac things are. They are not even trying to be negative or
nothing like that. That is just the way
they see it. Do not waste time being
angry with them but take their word about the necessity of intervention because
they are natural evaluators. And if you
are an analytical who is a coach. Take another look at the blogs about the
other personality types because you will need it. Your standards are yours and yours only and
be careful not to get afflicted with analysis paralysis because it is a huge
deterrent to you evolving into an extraordinary business coach.
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